know them, communicate them, hold out for friends & mates who wants to honor them & care about loving you well with them
"We teach people how to treat us." - Patrice
The 5 Love Languages is a book written by Dr. Gary Smalley and brilliantly helps us articulate our needs and desires in human relationships - not just romantic relationships, but all. Let's care about each other's love languages so we love well. If you don't know your family or friends, find out and start loving them in the way they want to be loved, not the way that is easy for you. No one wants to be loved only when it is convenient, but in committed, caring, sacrificial friendships.